Friendship: Frog and Toad

 

Rhonda Soukup                                              Jennifer Witt

 

Professional School Counselor                       MSUM Intern, 2003

 

Hidden Oaks Middle School                           Hidden Oaks Middle School

 

Prior Lake, Minnesota                                                Prior Lake, Minnesota

 

Description of the Lesson

 

Lesson:  Friendship

 

Materials Needed:  The book, Frog and Toad Are Friends by Arnold Lobel, writing paper and color pencils.

 

Activity:  Ask students to close their eyes and think about a friend.  Ask students to think of things that they like to do with that friend.  Allow students to share some of their thoughts.  Show students the cover of the book, Frog and Toad Are Friends.  Read the title and the author together with the students.  Ask students to make predictions about what they think the story will be about and the kinds of activities the characters will do together.  Remind the students to listen carefully to the story to see if their predictions are correct.  Read the story aloud to the students.  After the completion of the book, discuss the following questions:

~How did Frog wake Toad up from his long nap?

~Why did Toad give Frog a coat that had so many buttons on it?
~Why didnŐt Toad want anyone to see him in the lake?

~When everyone was laughing at ToadŐs bathing suit, what would you have done if you were in FrogŐs place?

~Why did Frog send Toad a letter when he sees him in person every day?

 

Have the students brainstorm different things that they like about one of their friends and review the process of letter writing.  Using their ideas, have each student write a letter to their friend.  In the letter they will tell their friend the things that they like about him/her and the things that they enjoy doing with the friend. If the students' friends are in the same school, they can give the letters directly to them. If their friends don't attend the school, they may mail the letters.  Ask for volunteers to read their letters to the class. Explain to children that they did this activity to show them one way to keep a friendship strong. One way to keep a friendship strong is by reminding the person how much his/her friendship means. By writing to their friends, the students are reminding themselves and their friends how important their friendship is.   

 

 

 

 

Connections to Related Standards, Competencies and Domains

 

Friendship: Frog and Toad, directly relates to Minnesota Graduation Standard; Read, Listen and View: Interpretation and Evaluation.  This lesson specifically allows students to interpret and evaluate information from an age-appropriate fiction selection by reading, viewing, and listening and by making predictions based on information in the selection.

This lesson is also reflective of the Personal/Social and Educational developmental domains of the Minnesota School CounselorsŐ Model of Developmental Guidance and Counseling.  The lesson attaches itself to these domains by allowing the participants to reflect on the importance of friendship and on how to be a better friend to others.  It also gives them an opportunity to practice reading, listening and writing skills.

 

References and Resources

 

            Lobel, Arnold (1970).  Frog and Toad Are Friends, Harper Collins Juvenile Books, New York, New York.

 

Lesson plan:  www.buildingrainbows.com

 

For Further Information

 

Jennifer Witt

School Social Worker

Counseling Intern

Hidden Oaks Middle School

Prior Lake, MN

Phone: 952-226-0720

Fax:  952-226-0749

E-mail:  jwitt@priorlake-savage.k12.mn.us