Stress:  Dealing with the Feeling

 

Rhonda Soukup                                              Jennifer Witt

 

Professional School Counselor                       MSUM Intern, 2003

 

Hidden Oaks Middle School                           Hidden Oaks Middle School

 

Prior Lake, Minnesota                                                Prior Lake, Minnesota

 

Description of the Program

 

Feed Your Head is a handbook and a component of the Caring Circle program developed by Hazelden of Minnesota.  This book is broken down into 26 chapters, each discussing various topics of concerns for teens.  There are various activities and handouts that accompany each lesson. The following lesson is an activity developed for use in either a classroom setting or small group setting.

 

Description of the Lesson

 

Lesson:  What is Stress?

 

Materials Needed:  Feed Your Head handbook, accompanying worksheets, balloons, and rubber bands.

 

Activity:  Place students in groups of 3-4.  Give each group one balloon and have them blow it up full, yet leaving some elasticity.  Ask students to open their handbook to page 109.  Discuss the description of stress and ask students in their groups to describe times when they have felt Òstressed out.Ó  Each time that a student can relate to stress in their lives, have them place a rubber band around the balloon.  Allow students adequate time to discuss those things that are most stressful in their lives.  As more rubber bands are place around the balloon, it will become smaller and will bulge out in different directions.  Ask students to describe what has happened to the balloon, and have them discuss ways in which stress has a similar effect on their own lives.  Hand out worksheet number 28, entitled Stress Checklist.  Ask each student to personally answer each question.  Have students return to their small group setting to discuss the worksheet. 

 

When discussion is complete, ask students to open their handbook to page 113.  Discuss the many ways that stress can be recognized and managed in positive, healthy ways.  Handout worksheet number 29, entitled Symptoms of Inner Peace (Managed Stress).  Ask students to reflect on these positive and healthy coping mechanisms, while removing the rubber bands placed around the balloon.  Discuss how after each rubber band is removed, the balloon regains itÕs original shape and appears unharmed.

 

 

Connections to Related Standards, Competencies and Domains

 

Stress: Dealing with the Feeling, directly relates to Minnesota Graduation Standard: Physical Education and Lifetime Fitness; Personal Health.  This lesson specifically addresses the benefits of making healthy choices regarding the recognition of and the management of stress. This lesson also is reflective of the Personal and Social developmental domain of the Minnesota School CounselorsÕ Model of Developmental Guidance and Counseling.  The lesson attaches itself to this domain by allowing the participants to reflect on how stress affects them personally and to reach within themselves to find healthy ways to manage stress.

 

References and Resources

 

            Hipp, Earl (1991).  Feed Your Head: Some Excellent Stuff on Being Yourself,  Hazelden Educational Materials, Center City, MN 55012.  1-800-328-9000

 

For Further Information

 

Jennifer Witt

School Social Worker

Counseling Intern

Hidden Oaks Middle School

Prior Lake, MN

Phone: 952-226-0720

Fax:  952-226-0749

E-mail:  jwitt@priorlake-savage.k12.mn.us